Recent comments in /f/venting
cowloom wrote
Reply to tried asking my primary care doctor about getting my tubes tied, was discouraged by skookin
The childfree subreddit on the other site used to have a list of doctors on their wiki page that wouldn't give you the runaround about getting your tubes tied. I'm not sure if it's still there, but if so, it may be worth seeing if your city / a nearby city is on the list, and reaching out to one of those doctors! Don't let one "no" hold you back.
devtesla wrote
Reply to comment by skookin in tried asking my primary care doctor about getting my tubes tied, was discouraged by skookin
Yeah I hope it helps. I don't think just being planned parenthood will mean the doc is good, but it's a better chance. Wishing you the best
skookin OP wrote
Reply to comment by devtesla in tried asking my primary care doctor about getting my tubes tied, was discouraged by skookin
i guess its worth a try. i did get my current bc from them and it was a great experience, minimal runaround
devtesla wrote
Reply to tried asking my primary care doctor about getting my tubes tied, was discouraged by skookin
Can you just go to planned parenthood instead of talking to primary care?
Alessia wrote
Reply to i actually didn't stop hrt hehe by twovests
I would like to register my support for unlimited forcefem on the male population of planet Earth
cute_spider wrote (edited )
Reply to comment by twovests in i actually didn't stop hrt hehe by twovests
no that's going to be illegal in 2025 so for the same reasons in your other post i am not going to start any new gender adventures and in fact going to move from "agender" to "cis+" which is mostly just a marketing move but still.
my internet friend who's big into finnster recommended it and I think it's a good move
twovests OP wrote
Reply to comment by cute_spider in i actually didn't stop hrt hehe by twovests
🔫take the fucking estrogen
(i am joking and do not actually think we should start people on estrogen at birth)
cute_spider wrote
Reply to i actually didn't stop hrt hehe by twovests
I also start to wonder if society would be better if all people AMAB were started on a strict regimen of estrogen actually.
I eat women's gummie multi vitamins and I feel like that's enough
cute_spider wrote
Reply to comment by twovests in can someone tell me how valid a "mental health day" is by twovests
unless the basement represents masculinity, I think you should brave it and head down
twovests OP wrote
Reply to comment by cowloom in can someone tell me how valid a "mental health day" is by twovests
good point. i AM trying to find one. perhaps that's worth taking a mental health day for...
cowloom wrote
needing a mental health day every once in a while: valid
needing mental health days frequently: still valid, but probably a sign to find a therapist
twovests OP wrote
i'm not even doing THAT bad but i do feel like i woke up one day, and they removed the guardrails on the stairs that go up to my apartment on the seventh floor.
hey, the LD50 for flights of stairs is 5. and, hey, does this spiral go to the basement? did we always have that?
twovests OP wrote
Reply to comment by twovests in can someone tell me how valid a "mental health day" is by twovests
good thing the whole "harvesting organs from your political enemies while they are alive" can only happen in china. right. good thing that can't happen in america. not even guantanamo bay right
i am concerned for how bad things can get
twovests OP wrote (edited )
on a similar note, if someone wants to vivisect and unfurl from my face my sinuses, i would welcome that (sniffles)
twovests OP wrote
Reply to comment by twovests in there are so many crushing issues that seem absolute. and undefeatable by twovests
i made this post because i thought this was funny. then i realized how fucked up that is
but this is indeed so funny a thing to say
twovests OP wrote
kamala harris lost because she never said what her policies are on circumcision
twovests wrote
💜💜🫂 i know this feeling. im really happy to hear that
cowloom wrote
Reply to comment by twovests in haha, "transition"? what was i even talking about. haha by twovests
I'm the same way, and that also makes me feel kind of guilty. My friends are going to be targeted, but I won't be. But I have to stick around and help them fight.
twovests OP wrote
Reply to comment by twovests in haha, "transition"? what was i even talking about. haha by twovests
I want to emphasize what I mean here:
If DIY HRT becomes associated with the same level of illegality as child sex abuse material, then you don't want to be buying that with your credit card. You want to be buying your HRT with the same money that people use to buy CSAM.
(I'm also increasingly worried about how credit card header data can be used, but that's a separate thing)
twovests OP wrote
Reply to comment by cowloom in haha, "transition"? what was i even talking about. haha by twovests
I don't mean to be edgy, but I won't even have it that bad! I'm white and still very cis-male passing and employed. "I can move to Canada" is actually a possibility for me.
twovests OP wrote
Reply to comment by cute_spider in haha, "transition"? what was i even talking about. haha by twovests
I may or may not have already been doing a variety of crimes. Everyone's talking about how we'll have less energy to organize against support for Israel, but I think we'll also collectively have a lower risk tolerance for being arrested.
cute_spider wrote
Look I don't think this is good advice, but it's all I have: Be gay do crimes
cowloom wrote
Reply to comment by neku in haha, "transition"? what was i even talking about. haha by twovests
it could literally be a matter of life or death now, I don't blame op for feeling this way.
twovests wrote (edited )
Reply to comment by devtesla in tried asking my primary care doctor about getting my tubes tied, was discouraged by skookin
Planned Parenthood is great for its relatively-low-barrier-of-entry.
When I got HRT they were very "no questions asked, but also this is such a mysterious and possibly Dangerous Drug, and we will need a lot of blood from you". Which is a lot better than the experiences I heard to expect from anywhere else!