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twovests OP wrote
Reply to comment by hollyhoppet in future gen. consels wii2 ps4 xbox720? by twovests
happy to do my posting duties
twovests wrote
is he still leaf blowing?
hollyhoppet wrote
Reply to future gen. consels wii2 ps4 xbox720? by twovests
thank you for this classic
WRETCHEDSORCERESS wrote
the world has gone to hell in a handbasket since they stopped teaching kids wind magic in school...
twovests wrote
i will come wearing neither
nomorepie wrote
Reply to bug guide dot net by devtesla
Thabk you devtesla and Iowa state university
nomorepie wrote
Mimimi...
twovests wrote
this makes me want to be your friend
SWORDSCROSSED wrote
Reply to comment by rain in there should be a guy who grants wishes for free by flabberghaster
The world needs more people like this!
hollyhoppet wrote
Reply to comment by twovests in Mourning and ghosts by twovests
<3 it's been long enough that it's a bittersweet feeling more than just sad or whatever
rain wrote
Reply to comment by SWORDSCROSSED in there should be a guy who grants wishes for free by flabberghaster
Pure prejudice. shakes head
Personally, I see an unmarked van around, I like to walk up to it and offer the driver candy. Seems only fair they get free candy too!
SWORDSCROSSED wrote
There was, but people are too wary of unmarked vans nowadays
Jenheadjen wrote
they should invent a genie in a lab
flabberghaster wrote
twovests OP wrote
Reply to comment by devtesla in With "raw milk > vaccines" RFK leading health, Joe Rogan considered a thought leader, "Biden is a Palestinian" Trump taking power, and "woke created hurricanes and wildfires", I can't help but wonder why the r-slur is coming back? (CW - Ableism) by twovests
Oh yeah, to be clear, I think it's still not good to say the word.
I think "we need to get woke again" is good. I also think we should be saying "I'm a feminist" again. And "it's okay to kill nazis", which sounds cutesy and trite, but I think we need to actually say the words
twovests wrote
although no lamps have genies, all lamps ARE magic
nomorepie wrote
Reply to Mourning and ghosts by twovests
It's a good post
nomorepie wrote
No tricks no takebacks
devtesla wrote
Reply to With "raw milk > vaccines" RFK leading health, Joe Rogan considered a thought leader, "Biden is a Palestinian" Trump taking power, and "woke created hurricanes and wildfires", I can't help but wonder why the r-slur is coming back? (CW - Ableism) by twovests
Over the past decade we've debated language and representation to a degree beyond what made actual progress. There were wins here and there but we've basically just given oppressive institutions a new way to look friendly, and they're not even trying to do that anymore.
I don't have a solution to the problem but for me personally I'll still watch what I say to reasonable degree. Like I hope I'm just ahead of the curve when I say "we need to get woke again".
twovests OP wrote (edited )
Reply to With "raw milk > vaccines" RFK leading health, Joe Rogan considered a thought leader, "Biden is a Palestinian" Trump taking power, and "woke created hurricanes and wildfires", I can't help but wonder why the r-slur is coming back? (CW - Ableism) by twovests
This is a "two posts for one" special.
Disability is a tricky identity thing I think. I think it's good to have an expansive and inclusive idea about what disabled means. But in practice I fail at that.
I'd been rolling around in a wheelchair, courtesy of an airport, because of a chronic but undiagnosed physical condition. I felt immense guilt that I might be taking a wheelchair away from others, I felt bad at the way people averted their gaze, and I felt bad that people were so quick to accomodate me. But I really appreciated how much easier it was to get around and how much it helped the pain.
That was years ago. Using my crutches recently, to help with this problem I'm still having, I just realized, wait, ya doofus, that makes you disabled.
I'd been a big advocate for disability as an inclusive identity. Microsoft is actually great at this, modeling disability as something that can be permanent, temporary, or situational.
Despite agreeing with that inclusive model, I felt guilty about "taking" a resource from someone else who might use it.
Even though I needed it.
"Disability" is still a super broad net. Fuck, I'm disabled! I think? I've had this for years. I can't be very intersectional if I never considered myself in that way.
I was in special ed and called the r-slur for being in special ed, but even then, I am seriously not an authority on this matter! I don't have a learning disability and I don't think I faced meaningful discrimination for the perception that I did. "Disabled" is one of the broadest groups I'm aware of.
And, if it took me years of a disability to recognize I'm disabled, I probably shouldn't be speaking on disability either. I'm not experienced enough at that to be disabled correctly, you see. Wait, that's internalized ableism too. I can't just delete the post, can I? Let me consult the manual.
THE MANUAL OF POSTING RULE 1: JUST POST THE END OF THE MANUAL OF POSTING
But I'm really self conscious!
YOU AREN'T THE AMBASSADOR OF DISABLED PEOPLE NOBODY EXPECTS YOU TO BE. IT'S NOT A THING FRANKLY, IT'S KIND OF WEIRD THAT YOU'RE GETTING SO FAR IN TO YOUR OWN HEAD ABOUT THIS ONE THING EVERYONE UNDERSTANDS THAT HAVING A "LEG THING" DOESN'T MEAN YOU CAN USE THE R-SLUR. IT'S NOT A COMPLICATED THING. JUST POST
Thank you for the reassurance, Just Post Rulebook Tulpa.
In all seriousness, I've had and think I will continue to have difficulty identifying as "disabled". It feels like stolen valor, or something I should qualify with an asterisk.
I think I would feel more comfortable with an identity that could express the nebulous, I-can-usually-walk nature of what I have going on. That might be easier if I had a diagnosis, other than "your leg can't take weight sometimes". I feel like I don't even know how to be "proud" properly.
But so long as I pass as able-bodied, I promise to continue to always be annoying to people around me about ability considerations. Big win (14 months ago), I got a manager to remove a mandate that everyone use Postman. Another big win (~70 months ago) I got my girlfriend (now ex) to feel bad for not understanding how OpenStreetMaps pavement markings could be useful for people who rely on a mobility aid. I'll continue to fight, and to make bad posts. I will never stop posting. I swear this to you.
twovests wrote
Reply to comment by twovests in yep, it's sandwich time by 500poundsofnothing
anyways, lay down the "wich details" (please)
twovests wrote
Reply to I feel there's a non-zero chance within the next decade that the US gov repeals asbestos regulations for being woke by Jenheadjen
This actually kind of happened earlier 2024. Asbestos is very common despite regulations, but the EPA ended up banning it for realsies. One of the many huge wins that gives me pause about the "Kamala and Biden is 99% Hitler" stuff. Conservatives got angry about that, but "make nurseries asbestos again" didn't take off.
Maybe those mesothelioma memes were a good thing.