Recent comments in /f/venting
neku wrote
Reply to It really still makes me angry the way people have stopped caring about Covid. by flabberghaster
remember the beautiful moment we had where societally we were like "maybe we can establish a new normal of cleaner air for people indoors, reduced transmission of airborne transmission of pathogens, smarter policies around sick leave and working from home" and The Powers That Be were like "actually we thought about it and that would make the money sad :( get back in the fucking office"
hollyhoppet wrote
Reply to It really still makes me angry the way people have stopped caring about Covid. by flabberghaster
yeah it's so fucked
hollyhoppet wrote
Reply to i really need to put more salt in my cooking, but i'm always afraid of oversalting it and then i can't undo it by ___
youre allowed and actually encouraged to take a little bit while it's in the pot to taste
also there's no problem with adding salt to your liking after it's served either
neku wrote
Reply to i really need to put more salt in my cooking, but i'm always afraid of oversalting it and then i can't undo it by ___
im bad at this too. my rule is to just keep putting salt in until it tastes different lol. its definitely one of the harder parts of cooking for me too
hollyhoppet wrote
Reply to i'm a girl by ___
fun transgender fact: if you wish you were a girl, chances are that you are, in fact, a girl
neku wrote
Reply to i hung up my laundry yesterday but i had to close the window in the evening because mosquitos started coming in and now my laundry is still wet and i wish i had better venting so i guess this post is a vent vent post by ___
i've read that if you have a little bit of laundry you can hang it up in your bathroom with the extractor fan on and thatll help. my bathroom is like 3 square metres so that doesn't work for me but maybe you're a high roller. otherwise maybe you could get a screen for your window. or just put your clothes outside. my roommates dont put their clothes out to dry when its sunny and its like... but that's optimal drying time
twovests OP wrote
Reply to i have now spent 25% of my life caring about UNDERTALE toby fox. and i have . spent almost 50% of my life caring about YOU, toby fox... by twovests
hi i posted this in entirely the wrong subreddit and i have no idea how. sorry f/venting
if it means anything i'm looking up enviously at what i thought were the lowest points of my life and i don't know how to move forward
twovests wrote
Reply to my body feels like it is dying by ___
oh no
what's happening? :(
you can vent more here if you would like
cute_spider wrote
Reply to wtf do i do? by ___
Gosh I with I had a good answer for this but all I can suggest is to keep moving
even if you moved all day and it was 100% set backs, it's at least better than doing nothing
so wtf do you do? please just keep trying to do anything
___ OP wrote
Reply to wtf do i do? by ___
im losing hope
flabberghaster wrote (edited )
Reply to I hate the victimism surrounding the discourse of Facebook possibly EEE'ing the fediverse like in XMPP by nitori
Take the big corporation's move as a victory and vindication of your open cause, but also see it as a wake-up call and challenge to support your favorite implementation's developers and their spec writers, whether by money, code, or simple evangelism ("hey bestie look at Misskey it has custom reactions which you can't do in Threads!")
I sort of think this is wrong. The reason they're currently playing nice is because they see a green field that's open to them. Fediverse has been a success! This is true! They wouldn't bother to EEE it I'd it hadn't been.
But, this is always how it goes. This is the "embrace" phase of the cycle. I don't think the people who are virulently opposed to Facebook integrating are oblivious to that. And also, using it as an opportunity to tout features threads still lacks, I think, is a losing game, because Facebook has billions if dollars and the ability to clone any features someone might want. An open project like any if the fedi clients cannot compete with them on features, all it has is the ability to say "we're not going to enable a genocide like FB does and we're a bit better at respecting your autonomy and privacy."
emma wrote
Reply to I hate the victimism surrounding the discourse of Facebook possibly EEE'ing the fediverse like in XMPP by nitori
If facebook wanted to extinguish the fediverse, they could simply spread rumours about making a compatible social media site, and then watch as the ensuing inter-instance drama completes the job for them
nomorepie wrote
Reply to just had a nice chat with my mom (cw: phobia) by ___
god this sucks im sorry
flabberghaster wrote
Reply to just had a nice chat with my mom (cw: phobia) by ___
So shitty. I hope you're able to not have to deal with them soon. I don't get why people are so awful.
voxpoplar wrote
Reply to just had a nice chat with my mom (cw: phobia) by ___
🫂 I'm really sorry
___ OP wrote
therapist just quit on me lol
well thats it i guess
twovests wrote
if it means anything, i can relate to a lot of these feelings. i feel like quarantine and then getting covid Just Makes Every Brain Thing Worse
i wish i had something optimistic to say, but i can only offer commiseration
___ OP wrote
Reply to i dont want to by ___
its frustrating that i have just enough self control left that i wont ever do anything about it