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___ OP wrote
Reply to wtf do i do? by ___
im losing hope
flabberghaster wrote (edited )
Reply to I hate the victimism surrounding the discourse of Facebook possibly EEE'ing the fediverse like in XMPP by nitori
Take the big corporation's move as a victory and vindication of your open cause, but also see it as a wake-up call and challenge to support your favorite implementation's developers and their spec writers, whether by money, code, or simple evangelism ("hey bestie look at Misskey it has custom reactions which you can't do in Threads!")
I sort of think this is wrong. The reason they're currently playing nice is because they see a green field that's open to them. Fediverse has been a success! This is true! They wouldn't bother to EEE it I'd it hadn't been.
But, this is always how it goes. This is the "embrace" phase of the cycle. I don't think the people who are virulently opposed to Facebook integrating are oblivious to that. And also, using it as an opportunity to tout features threads still lacks, I think, is a losing game, because Facebook has billions if dollars and the ability to clone any features someone might want. An open project like any if the fedi clients cannot compete with them on features, all it has is the ability to say "we're not going to enable a genocide like FB does and we're a bit better at respecting your autonomy and privacy."
emma wrote
Reply to I hate the victimism surrounding the discourse of Facebook possibly EEE'ing the fediverse like in XMPP by nitori
If facebook wanted to extinguish the fediverse, they could simply spread rumours about making a compatible social media site, and then watch as the ensuing inter-instance drama completes the job for them
nomorepie wrote
Reply to just had a nice chat with my mom (cw: phobia) by ___
god this sucks im sorry
flabberghaster wrote
Reply to just had a nice chat with my mom (cw: phobia) by ___
So shitty. I hope you're able to not have to deal with them soon. I don't get why people are so awful.
voxpoplar wrote
Reply to just had a nice chat with my mom (cw: phobia) by ___
🫂 I'm really sorry
___ OP wrote
therapist just quit on me lol
well thats it i guess
twovests wrote
if it means anything, i can relate to a lot of these feelings. i feel like quarantine and then getting covid Just Makes Every Brain Thing Worse
i wish i had something optimistic to say, but i can only offer commiseration
cute_spider wrote
Reply to wtf do i do? by ___
Gosh I with I had a good answer for this but all I can suggest is to keep moving
even if you moved all day and it was 100% set backs, it's at least better than doing nothing
so wtf do you do? please just keep trying to do anything