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oolong wrote
Reply to comment by twovests in On life and how it ends [tw discussion of suicide] by nomorepie
i've only read one paper (of the many existing ones) on self-immolation in tibet but simplifying them as "cheap an quick" really glosses over the oppression happening on multiple levels where a voice in actual tibetan can't even be heard
twovests wrote
I feel for that. I think "copycat suicides" really are a serious problem. I think suicides to prove a point are usually just a waste. They're a cheap an quick way to amplify your voice a little bit, at the cost of ever being able to speak again.
That said, suicide is also a pretty good solution to almost every personal problem. So much of the dialogue around suicide refuses to acknowledge this, because "We concede that suicide is a reprieve from all pain forever" probably isn't good messaging." Trying to reduce suicides is probably a good thing.
And I'm not sure a peer group of depressed and suicidal individuals wouldn't just fuel each others' worst tendencies.
This is a difficult point for me. There used to be such a group on Reddit that did go into the "Suicide will end your pain but also put it onto others, and most suicidal people really shouldn't do it, etc." It was legitimately good and useful dialogue with decent moderation.
When Reddit banned the community, it found another form, and it lead to many many premature deaths. I know people who have died after discovering methods on the offshoot community. I think these communities are possible to exist as something healthy, but that's very difficult to do and is also a huge liability.
I don't have any answers here, I'm sitting here with you on this. It's a subject I love to talk about but it feels like such a danger. It's very unique as a taboo.
flabberghaster OP wrote
Reply to comment by nomorepie in I pretty much bricked my router while trying to do a firmware upgrade, but I was able to recover it and get the upgrade done successfully. by flabberghaster
That's right. I sent her forces into a disorderly retreat and prevailed on the battlefield.
nomorepie wrote
Reply to I pretty much bricked my router while trying to do a firmware upgrade, but I was able to recover it and get the upgrade done successfully. by flabberghaster
Route her? Well I hardly know her!
flabberghaster OP wrote
Reply to comment by hollyhoppet in I pretty much bricked my router while trying to do a firmware upgrade, but I was able to recover it and get the upgrade done successfully. by flabberghaster
Not only did I unbrick it, I now have IPv6 which wasn't working before! 🥳
hollyhoppet wrote
Reply to I pretty much bricked my router while trying to do a firmware upgrade, but I was able to recover it and get the upgrade done successfully. by flabberghaster
congrats on recovering the situation
rain wrote
Reply to i like reading [Aa] by oolong
One of my driving motivations to go get new glasses is it has become to difficult to read for pleasure. Reading is one of the things that makes life worth living.
oolong OP wrote
Reply to i like reading [Aa] by oolong
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emma OP wrote
Reply to comment by twovests in i've finished one (1) raspberry pi project by emma
does working on the pi offer you any automation / relief from the openwrt woes you had on the old router?
yeah, ansible works very well with raspbian, and just debian in general. openwrt uses like overlayfs and is very limited compared to a normal linux system, so although you could probably get ansible to work (it just needs ssh and python on the target system), it sounds like it'd be painful.
and why did you choose a compute module?
chip shortage, that was the only model i could get at the time. also the ethernet hat was like purpose-made for what i wanted a pi for.
twovests wrote
Reply to i've finished one (1) raspberry pi project by emma
i appreciate you sharing this experience!! i have been considering doing something similar with openwrt. does working on the pi offer you any automation / relief from the openwrt woes you had on the old router? and why did you choose a compute module?
twovests wrote
Reply to i've finished one (1) raspberry pi project by emma
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nomorepie wrote
Reply to I must be loyle to my capo. by flabberghaster
it was so sad when he tthrew it out :( no chrissy believe in your dreams
devtesla wrote
Reply to I must be loyle to my capo. by flabberghaster
MUST
voxpoplar wrote
Reply to My legally distinct Metroid OC by twovests
When I read Eire I think of the Irish name for Ireland (Éire) so pronounced it like "air-ah" in my head but is it intended to just be like "air" or "ear" or something else?
twovests OP wrote
Reply to comment by hollyhoppet in My posts will no longer be silly, merely whimsical. Please respect my privacy during this time. by twovests
I saw an AI generated advertisement for adult diapers and I thought it was created by an enthusiast of the diapers. It seemed oddly endearing, but I didn't understand why he was posting it in the "Aged Urine Therapy" group I'm in.
But it turns out it was created by the person who manufactures them at home and sells them exclusively on Amazon dot com.
This group isn't funny like I thought it would be, it's actually quite sad. The people drinking their urine are people who are far down a path of desperation.
So I also feel like Dr. Manhattan sometimes
hollyhoppet wrote (edited )
Reply to My posts will no longer be silly, merely whimsical. Please respect my privacy during this time. by twovests
you're like the dr manhattan of posting
twovests wrote
Reply to I've decided to recommit to not using ablist language. CW: mentions of ablist slurs. by flabberghaster
Let me know if you find a solution. The loss of clarity of message is hard to swallow. Especially as English proficiency wanes in the population, I'm struggling between the desire to simplify my language so that people can understand me, and the desire to be Erudite and Articulated.
It might help to focus on the social aspect? "That's fucked up" might convey parts of what "that's crazy" would.
cute_spider wrote
Reply to comment by nomorepie in Followup on my running #journey by nomorepie
good point good point
nomorepie wrote
Reply to mouse in a trap 2 by twovests
I think it's good that you're not numb to the sight
nomorepie OP wrote
Reply to comment by cute_spider in Followup on my running #journey by nomorepie
Yea but consider this: number go up!
cute_spider wrote
Reply to Followup on my running #journey by nomorepie
Yeah those seem like pretty good times. I pick running back up each springtime and it's always more like, "very slow jogging" so I don't even record my times!
emma wrote
i think you're wrong about this. anyway, time to read the news.
flabberghaster wrote
Reply to A cookie for allies by twovests
I always got the vibe that the scorn was for people who were doing it just to look good but didn't actually care or were fairweather friends. Like, if you're an ally you should be doing it because it's right, not going around bragging about how good you are to those poor, benighted trans people.
On the other hand sometimes people take it a bit far and are dismissive like you say, which I can get, i understand it, I don't think anyone should be too broken up about it. But it does suck to feel like you're trying to do the right thing for someone even though they seem not to really like you very much.
It's complicated I think. It's good to express appreciation for people being with you, but at the same time you don't want to feel like someone is lording something over you.
nomorepie wrote
God willing. 🙏🏼
twovests wrote
Reply to comment by oolong in On life and how it ends [tw discussion of suicide] by nomorepie
Sorry; I should clarify what I mean. By "cheap and quick", I really do just mean that the amplification is real and short-lived. And I only have my American political context here.
The self-immolation protest suicides in Tibet are something I really didn't know much about at all. (Other than searching up their wiki articles after having had read your comment.) I'm only speaking in my context as someone in the USA who's mostly aware of these suicides in how they interact with politics in America.
I can only readily recall two examples (other than suicide attacks), even though I know there were many more. The most salient being "Aaron Bushnell"* self-immolating last year. The anniversary is tomorrow and I doubt it'll be remembered at all.
And by "cheap", I'm trying not to fedpost here, but far-right terrorists in America have conducted suicide attacks that have proven to have real political gains. Trump might not be in the office today if his supporters didn't show ten years of evidence that they're willing to throw away their lives and drive and shoot and kill for him. I think suicides amplify a message, but don't have the same chilling effect that suicides attached to terror attacks do.