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Reply to the following words are no longer allowed by hollyhoppet
the final girlboss...
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Reply to today is my birthday by hollyhoppet
holly thank you for being holly!!!
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that's from me irl! there's a lot of different ways to interpret "don't be racist, homophobic etc.", while asking "don't be edgy" is much narrower. it is completely wild how much less drama we had in our modmail after we changed the rules
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Reply to extremely angry when a corporation makes an advertisement that is relatable and i happen to see it. very upsetting. by twovests
never want to see an ad. who gave you permission?
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sorry for coming back after so long only to be sad on main
absolutely not a problem, just post!! all love Toast!!
I don't have any advice that isn't what someone else said. You deserve to be someone's no. 1 and you will find that someday.
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Reply to comment by toasthaste in experienced a romantic rejection today pals by toasthaste
I wish you a good wallow
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Ahh oh no! I'm going to assume my advice didn't help Lol. Good luck
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Reply to small town moon theory by oolong
just a small town moon
orbitn around a lonely world
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Reply to comment by toasthaste in got a crush on someone online for the first time bros by toasthaste
I think you're on the right track! There's not a right or wrong answer here, you have to do what works for you.
It might be helpful to not really consider this one message you want to give them, but two. Message one is "I have a crush on you", and it's the undeniable, emotional one. Message two is "I want to do something with the crush" which is the one that you're still deciding what you want, and really needs their input on what they want. You're not going to decide to get rid of the crush, the rest you can decide not to do even if it will hurt to give up on it.
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I think telling them something like, "we've been spending a lot of time together, I've got a full on crush on you, and I think it might be real love" would be a good idea. You're spending a lot of time alone together, you know each other well enough, it's appropriate and good!
All the other complications of distance and sexuality can be worked out after you just say that you have a crush.
If this is partly just because of loneliness, so what? It's still a crush. That's something you can say to them and they'll work it out with you.
Learn to ignore feelings like "they're too good for me". It is 100% up to them who is good enough for them.
My one last piece of advice is to say that you have a crush before you visit them. A situation where they think they're hosting a friend on a visit, and you think you love them, is gonna get both of you hurt.
I hope this helps, good luck!
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Reply to really big moon theory by ellynu
how does a solar eclipse work then?
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Reply to tiny moon theory by hollyhoppet
I also believe the moon landing was faked
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Reply to comment by ellynu in I keep getting errors that say "You are banned!" by groovygardener42069
"getting the banned back together" sounds like a really cursed event for conservatives banned from twitter
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Reply to comment by Dogmantra in I keep getting errors that say "You are banned!" by groovygardener42069
They're called forums here lol
I think the only forum bans here are jokes. As for sitewide bans, every month or so we have a spammer we have to deal with, and once or twice we had some weirdo come here from raddle or reddit specifically to stir up shit and we nab em.
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Reply to Hi by groovygardener42069
I am, thank you groovygardener42069 ! welcome back!
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Reply to comment by Dogmantra in I think jstpst.net is the only website left on the internet that is still usable without javascript by flabberghaster
Oh no it's the mattress booo
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Reply to comment by Moonside in I just unfollowed every subreddit and user page on Reddit by Moonside
it's basically KonMari but for people in your social media feeds
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Reply to The ALAB podcast series is very good by flabberghaster
Incredible music podcast where they talk about law for some reason?
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Left wing conspiracy theorists: here are some uncontroversially validated facts that are mostly boring and hard to understand, about how government agencies foster right wing violence around the world and abuse their own citizens, and there's nothing you can do to stop it
Right wing conspiracy theorists: you were right about everything, and are the hero who will save the world
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Reply to how’s everyone doing by hollyhoppet
I moved in with my bf recently so most of my emotions are "I love my boyfriend" or "I'm extremely annoyed with my boyfriend"
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Reply to Stealth Camping In Storm Drain by flabberghaster
At no point in this video does he say why a storm drain but eventually I just stopped wondering
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Reply to comment by voxpoplar in there's like a secret n64 memory pak management menu in a lot of games wtf by devtesla
oh yea I should have mentioned this, thank you
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deciding that this means daft punk wrote canyon.mid
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Reply to thanks for the birthday wishes everyone by hollyhoppet
I am thank you