Recent comments in /f/venting
twovests OP wrote
i'm not even doing THAT bad but i do feel like i woke up one day, and they removed the guardrails on the stairs that go up to my apartment on the seventh floor.
hey, the LD50 for flights of stairs is 5. and, hey, does this spiral go to the basement? did we always have that?
twovests OP wrote
Reply to comment by twovests in can someone tell me how valid a "mental health day" is by twovests
good thing the whole "harvesting organs from your political enemies while they are alive" can only happen in china. right. good thing that can't happen in america. not even guantanamo bay right
i am concerned for how bad things can get
twovests OP wrote (edited )
on a similar note, if someone wants to vivisect and unfurl from my face my sinuses, i would welcome that (sniffles)
twovests OP wrote
Reply to comment by twovests in there are so many crushing issues that seem absolute. and undefeatable by twovests
i made this post because i thought this was funny. then i realized how fucked up that is
but this is indeed so funny a thing to say
twovests OP wrote
kamala harris lost because she never said what her policies are on circumcision
twovests wrote
💜💜🫂 i know this feeling. im really happy to hear that
cowloom wrote
Reply to comment by twovests in haha, "transition"? what was i even talking about. haha by twovests
I'm the same way, and that also makes me feel kind of guilty. My friends are going to be targeted, but I won't be. But I have to stick around and help them fight.
twovests OP wrote
Reply to comment by twovests in haha, "transition"? what was i even talking about. haha by twovests
I want to emphasize what I mean here:
If DIY HRT becomes associated with the same level of illegality as child sex abuse material, then you don't want to be buying that with your credit card. You want to be buying your HRT with the same money that people use to buy CSAM.
(I'm also increasingly worried about how credit card header data can be used, but that's a separate thing)
twovests OP wrote
Reply to comment by cowloom in haha, "transition"? what was i even talking about. haha by twovests
I don't mean to be edgy, but I won't even have it that bad! I'm white and still very cis-male passing and employed. "I can move to Canada" is actually a possibility for me.
twovests OP wrote
Reply to comment by cute_spider in haha, "transition"? what was i even talking about. haha by twovests
I may or may not have already been doing a variety of crimes. Everyone's talking about how we'll have less energy to organize against support for Israel, but I think we'll also collectively have a lower risk tolerance for being arrested.
cute_spider wrote
Look I don't think this is good advice, but it's all I have: Be gay do crimes
cowloom wrote
Reply to comment by neku in haha, "transition"? what was i even talking about. haha by twovests
it could literally be a matter of life or death now, I don't blame op for feeling this way.
cowloom wrote
I'm so, so sorry
twovests OP wrote (edited )
Reply to comment by neku in haha, "transition"? what was i even talking about. haha by twovests
two of my trans friends killed themselves during the trump presidency and MAGA is successfully and increasingly associating trans identity with pedophilia. pick your favorite transphobic slur, your favorite far-right forum, and your favorite search engine, to see what the winners were and are saying about us
most americans believe in christianity and we're living like the world isn't burning. people actually believe in christianity! that's wildly delusional! not transitioning is, like, third or fourth on the list of ways i'm living inauthentically
i will feel meaningfully safer and more secure in a life under trump if i don't continue my transition
neku wrote
i'm not a transgender american but i think you might be overestimating how good transition might be under a democratic president. at the end of the day do you really want to live inauthentically for four or more years because of who's president
twovests OP wrote
sorry. context was that i was transitioning. there were a lot of factors that had me on the fence, but this is a showstopper
twovests OP wrote
Reply to comment by twovests in haha, "transition"? what was i even talking about. haha by twovests
I was part of the "I won't vote for genocide" vote, and it does sting that that principle did mean throwing all these minority groups under the bus, but it's even worse that the "I won't vote for genocide" didn't end up mattering at all
twovests OP wrote
cryptocurrency is good now
twovests wrote (edited )
Reply to I wish I weren't crazy by flabberghaster
What do you stand to gain from this?
🍭your friends love you and enjoy being around you🍭
🍭you are ethically obligated to assume your friends enjoy your company🍭
🫂you are a good person who is appreciated🫂
cowloom wrote
Reply to I wish I weren't crazy by flabberghaster
I have a friend who always feels the same way whenever I invite her to things. She usually ends up having a good time in the end
cowloom wrote
Reply to Things are by flabberghaster
Waiting is
hollyhoppet OP wrote
Reply to oof my manager is making me mad today by hollyhoppet
"i don't want to make it seem like i'm micromanaging" well you're not doing a good job at that
cowloom wrote (edited )
Reply to comment by flabberghaster in i think i genuinely have one of the world's worst brains by flabberghaster
Are there any leftist organizations in your area? I guarantee you you're not alone in the way you feel, and if you start organizing with other principled and disciplined people, you can do something about it.
Edited to add: There's nothing inherently wrong with the other suggestions here; it's good to have tactics to manage your own mental health in the world we live in. But, at the end of the day, taking care of yourself isn't going to actually stop the genocide, or any of the other problems you mentioned here.
One of my favorite quotes is from Angela Davis, and it goes, "I am no longer accepting the things I cannot change, I am changing the things I cannot accept." I can accept that there are some things I can't change right now, but that doesn't mean that I accept them as immutable facts of life, or that I have to accept them on a moral level. Fixing society's problems is going to take a lot of time and effort, but that doesn't mean we should throw our hands in the air and give up, it means we need to get to work. And right now, not enough people are actually doing something.
I know lots of progressive people who are frustrated with the state of the world, but they stay at home and binge-watch TV because they think there's nothing they can do about it. Imagine the frightening progress we could make if every one of those people stood up and started organizing. Defeatism is the cancer that prevents the modern left from getting anywhere. People have to stop believing they're powerless if we want to get off the ground. Evil triumphs when good people do nothing, and I'm not going to stand by and watch the world burn. I'm going to grab a fire hose, but I'm going to need some help to actually put out the fire.
cowloom wrote
Reply to can someone tell me how valid a "mental health day" is by twovests
needing a mental health day every once in a while: valid
needing mental health days frequently: still valid, but probably a sign to find a therapist