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hollyhoppet OP wrote
Reply to comment by mm_ in does anyone else habitually highlight text while reading it? by hollyhoppet
I HATE THOSE
noordinaryspider wrote
Reply to comment by RoundSparrow in Why do people think Raddle and Voat are the only alternatives to Reddit? by rizzines
I greatly prefer text based forums and am very happy to have found this place. I was invited by another member. I am also on Raddle for political stuff, so I don't need as much of it here unless it is a different perspective or something that I hadn't thought about.
I hope it's okay that I shared the link and invited someone who is being abused on Twitter.
noordinaryspider wrote
Reply to How do you have fun? by rizzines
What's fun?
RefloodTheFens wrote
yeah and then i accidentally middle click it into terminals
neku wrote
ya i'll double click paragraphs as i read them. not sure if it actually does anything to help or hurt my Reading Experience but i do it anyway
Moonside wrote
I just relisten to old pop songs repeatedly and after reading an article change it to another one.
devtesla wrote
Reply to comment by emma in does anyone else habitually highlight text while reading it? by hollyhoppet
I HATE MEDIUM SO MUCH
twovests wrote
hell yeys
emma wrote
Yes, and fuck Medium.
mm_ wrote
yea i do this all the time and its bad with some webpages that like popup stuff when you select. also i usually scroll by hitting spacebar and a ton of sites now have little popover menus over some of the page, and so spacebar scrolls a full page when it should really scroll a page minus the menu height if that makes sense
cute_spider_ni_srsly wrote
Yes I do that.
noordinaryspider wrote
Reply to comment by cute_spider_ni_srsly in What was it like when you had sex for the first time? by xifiesco
sex sux.
noordinaryspider wrote
Reply to 👻? by flabberghaster
:)
noordinaryspider wrote (edited )
I don't know, because I was really drunk at the time.
Not much fun. Scary waking up because he was drunk too, I was a minor and he wasn't, and it was so not cool that our skins were different colours. :(
We literally never spoke to each other again. We were always running into each other at parties and dropping acid together. Once he pointed at me and said, "I boinked (pronoun)." randomly and I neither confirmed nor denied it.
ETA: I'm reading this: https://everydayfeminism.com/2016/05/alcohol-and-consent-questions/ and wanted to clarify that I do not feel raped by the man I gave my virginity to. He was a perfectly decent human being and we might have been friends under other circumstances.
The alcohol made both of us temporarily forget the existence of racism and statutory rape laws. I was just flattered that a "big kid" thought I was pretty, if you want to know the truth. What could have happened to a twenty year old black man who got drunk and woke up in a bed with a naked white fourteen year old girl in the 1970s is not something I particularly want to talk about.
If he felt raped by me, I am so sorry. That wasn't even on my radar until a few months ago.
:(
cute_spider_ni_srsly wrote
Reply to comment by xifiesco in What was it like when you had sex for the first time? by xifiesco
dont forget: the goal of sex really isn't biggest/most orgasms
cute_spider_ni_srsly wrote
Reply to comment by xifiesco in What was it like when you had sex for the first time? by xifiesco
it was okay, we tried it a few more times and got things working.
xifiesco OP wrote
Reply to comment by BIG_GAY_UNDERSCORE in What was it like when you had sex for the first time? by xifiesco
username checks out
xifiesco OP wrote
Reply to comment by Alessia in What was it like when you had sex for the first time? by xifiesco
join the club
cute_spider_ni_srsly wrote
Reply to comment by xifiesco in What was it like when you had sex for the first time? by xifiesco
sex is better when you can laugh about it.
BIG_GAY_UNDERSCORE wrote
sex is gay
hollyhoppet wrote
Reply to comment by xifiesco in What was it like when you had sex for the first time? by xifiesco
Anectodally, I've found most people I've talked to about it have had a bad first time?
Like... it's just another one of those things that for some reason (probably institutional sexism in some way) is forbidden to talk about.
xifiesco OP wrote
Reply to comment by hollyhoppet in What was it like when you had sex for the first time? by xifiesco
Wow. So far everyone's first time was horrible.
hollyhoppet wrote
Awkard, difficult, hard to keep it up. Probably dysphoric without me realizing it. My partner at the time had some really rough body image issues so I don't know if it was very great for them either.
musou wrote
bad. F- would not again
cat wrote
Reply to does anyone else habitually highlight text while reading it? by hollyhoppet
i do it for more asthetic reasons when I am editing or reading a piece of text REALLY HARD so it looks like i am doing more and am a keyboard wizard/witch