someone on the reddit site made the point that if a queer space has a cis-het person or two, that was a good sign that the space was widely accepting to anyone, including people who are questioning or confused. spaces without a token cishet may also be inclusive, but may also expect a minimum level of "queerness" and may also expect other uniformities of thought and identity

But, like... pride? Pride has a ton of cishet allies why would we change that?