Viewing a single comment thread. View all comments

500poundsofnothing wrote

I mean part of the thing is that there is a big difference between stopping HRT and de transitioning you know. I know a bunch of people who have had to stop for both medical and financial reasons but didn't like detransition and all that. If you find a space that is advertising itself as for detransitioners you will find yourself most likely surrounded by people who will most likely also regret socially transitioning and from my experience are incredibly bitter. I don't know if there are any good spaces for people who stop hrt tbh.

3

twovests OP wrote

You do have a point. Tbh, I don't actually know where I'd draw the line. I see a lot of verbiage like desist/detrans/retrans/ftmtf/mtftm/etc.

I would expect a "detrans" or similar space to overrepresent regrets, but I really couldn't bear participating in a space that's anti-transition in general. In my lurking, I'm seeing no useful info haha, even in trans subs re: stopping HRT. (Other than the common knowledge of needing some amount of hormone in the body)

2